I spend a lot of time rocking the baby to sleep and resettling, which leaves one hand free.

i also have a lot of time doing menial tasks that don’t engage the brain during which I’m thinking about people’s thoughts and my response, as this has been high priority to work through..

I’m not going to fly economy because of certain decisions we’ve made about avoiding exposure to COVID. I realise we’re outliers on that front, and our decision - which we’re fortunate to have been able to make unlike many families who just had to risk it - has made a lot of things more challenging. I genuinely hope in the long run it’s going to look like a bad decision because that means minimal long term complications for babies.

The inconsistencies some of you want to believe are there are not

Anyway, I think I’m just about settled on course of action now. So thanks.