Welcome to Flyertalk. The best thing for you to do is to start ready all of the theads in this (and other forums) to learn about the different airline programs and what is offered. I noticed that you are a member of many programs, but you did not mention, if that 40k per year was on AA. If it is then you are probably Gold, if you fly on many airlines, you might consider moving all of your flights to achieve Elite stats (25k on AA).

Good Luck and start reading!