Originally Posted by
garykung
Are you trying to regulate what I can say? Or are you trying to regulate my life?
Helpful or not - personal experience encompasses how we deal with things daily. Because many FTers are judgmental, like this, so I would say personal experience is sufficient. Once I share the so-called personal experience, the judgmental nature will re-appear to judge my experience.
Clear enough for you?
Someone was asking for useful advice, you gave them a vague "because I said so" answer. I would love to know what your personal experience was that lead you to that decision. I may well realize you hit upon something that had never occurred to me. That helps everyone. This is not judgemental. This is a fact, you gave a vague answer that really didn't answer the question, and thus is unhelpful. Don't get your feelings hurt, it's not personal.