OP, we get you're upset, given the special circumstances for your daughter.

Understand that BE is what it is, and lesson learned for next time.

BTW, since you're new, this is a typical pattern we see around here, so excuse us if some of us are a little jaded:

• New poster just registered on FT to rant/vent about their situation
• Objective responses as to the rules
• OP rebuttal "yeah, but can't they bend the rule just this once?"
• More responses and/or "need more details, something's missing from OP story"
• (crickets)