I think you really need to re-calibrate your expectations, meltedmarshmellow .

I don't know how long you've been flying on the regular, but your attitude is not healthy. This is not air travel of 1967, and you aren't flying F to the Middle East or Asia. I suppose there are other options, but neither WS or the 'coon have lounges, and the US carriers are all inarguably worse for NA service.

Maybe a gig with the level of travel causing you this kind of stress isn't for you?