Most of the Spire benefits are not guaranteed, which means they are not really benefits. Some of the Ambassador benefits are guaranteed to be not guaranteed. Hilton late checkout is not guaranteed either, so it is best to read the reports on this forum to see if other people have had success at the hotel you plan to stay in.
Your Hilton membership won't be terminated with one complaint. If you really have so many complaints then you should probably stop staying at Hiltons even before they decide to terminate your membership.