maybe people are putting your names on these lists to bug you on purpose? I used to fill out people's names other than my own, as a joke, on the "time share contest" entry boxes at various retail places, knowing the sales people would call, email, contact the people and bug the hell out of them.
Not trying to be mean, but you come across as someone that would be easy to push their buttons. Maybe a secret admirer is yanking your chain?