Maybe this is why hotels hate us ? ( .... “hate” is too strong, perhaps “ view us with a deep and abiding suspicion” would be a better characterisation...)
I ‘get’ the OP’s disappointment, but really it isn’t up to the property to put on a song and dance routine to celebrate. On the other hand it would be nice if Marriott were to do something to recognise these milestones: even an email noting it, with a few bonus points ( say 10,000...). Many of us are feeling unloved and it would be a nice gesture ( ...and Preferable to cheeseboard/ bags/ amenity kits)