Keeping my fingers crossed NOT to get upgraded, lol.
Actually, every single thing you've said I've read elsewhere about the Napua Tower. We'll be traveling with kids/grandkids who are picky eaters so I'd rather not have to pass on nightly bean dip so they can get their pizza and burgers! And I can't abide a noisy room since we are early to bed/early to rise (and healthy, wealthy and wise to boot!)
What we WOULD love, however, is to be upgraded to the Ho whatever condos across the street for more breathing room, living area, etc. Since that's not gonna happen in this lifetime I think we'll be content with our terrace view.
So it sounds like you contacted someone before your trip to ask about upgrades and mention it was your honeymoon? (congrats btw)
You are also lucky to have gotten the Napua Lounge thrown in...back upstream in this thread someone was "upgraded" and got the room but not the lounge access. The worst of all possible worlds.