Great first post. Welcome to FlyerTalk!

I have the same apprehensions. If I want a bathhouse, I'll go to a bathhouse, but I'd like to leave and return to the real world when I'm done

As for B&B's: I went once and I'm done with those forever. There is nothing charming to me about this concept.

I'll be interested to see if gay hotels fall in between these two concepts, but in the meantime I'll just stick to the fine offerings by corporate America and the world. It's not like your not surrounded by gays in any hotel staff anyway