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Yes 60 day cancel is becoming the norm at many upscale properties (see eg Vail, Aspen). Ridiculous but not much you can do except book elsewhere.
The skating rink is fun and hopefully not too crowded. mid-day will be better for 3 year old. S/he can definitely play in the snow by the hotel (assuming there is snow). Or you can dump at the ski school or childcare facility near the northstar golf course if you want a day of skiing. Personally I recommend the school as it is not much more $$ and good to start your kids early. RC may also have a kids program