Well OP thinks $20K per year spend somehow makes him more valuable to Chase than others. There are many people who pay $450 AF PER CARD and spend WAY WAY more than that on their cards and still don't get a break. My 1 year AF on 1 Chase card is equivalent to 6.5 years of OP's $69 dollars AF. By OP's logic, since the interchange fee on my card is higher because it's a premium card (How interchange fee works) and I spend way more on it, Chase should be kissing my rear end daily and giving me AF waivers, since I'm more deserving on a per dollar basis but they don't and I don't expect them to.
My AF just came due also on the AMEX Platinum at $725. $550 primary plus $175 for authorized users. At 3%+ interchange fee AMEX charges, AMEX should be bending backwards to kiss my rear end but they don't. Its not even a thing I would be thinking to ask for in the first place.