She is usually pretty good at standing up fo herself ,I think the whole thing just caught her off guard.I think SO’s sometimes get looked at down the nose by some FF’s ,which is unfair given the sacrifices a partner makes for a HVF.In her own right she is a very experienced traveler, 6 years as a self earned 1k ,5 years of Black on Gulf air and flies somewhere between silver and gold annually on UA currently ,as such is perplexed at the behavior she experienced.