Originally Posted by
omaralt
lol. We all think things that we don’t act on. I would never punch somebody unless I was punched first. But yes, I was extremely stressed; being on the verge of missing of our family vacation and running through the airport with 3 young kids. And he knew our situation but still acted like that. I did not wrong him in anyway.
That's not quite my point. We all replay disputes in our minds, wishing we’d said or done something we didn’t. I’m saying that during or after a disagreement with someone, it never occurs to me that I’d like to punch that person or to tell them to do something obscene that is physiologically impossible. Of course, you didn’t do or say those things, but that you mentioned them here makes me wonder how quick you were to anger and how much you escalated the situation unnecessarily. I really would be interested in hearing the GA’s take on what happened.