I
love
Upgrades

But I also view upgrades as a privilege not a right. If i get a great upgrade I am really appreciative and certainly not expectant of said upgrade

i also figure if I want a particular room type and it really matters, I pay for said room

sounds like you are expecting the best room in the hotel. If you getting the room means you are now bent out of shape perhaps you pay for the room next time. If you treat upgrades as a bonus and not something to expect I promise you’ll be a lot happier when you travel

fyi I’m titianium