Definitely go for a villa. The villas consists of a number of casitas (= number of bedrooms) grouped around the private pool plus a dining pavillion which includes a dining room and a living room area with a TV plus a covered outside area and outside dining plus sufficient loungers, a bale, outside shower ++. This means you will have your privacy in your own casita plus all the extra space for being together. The butler will do everything for you, ours even played with our son and let him join around the island and help preparing meals. The private chef will cook anything you like, either your wishes, menues or his suggestions and the food we had prepared was delicious and did not cost more than in the restaurants, rather less as far as I remember. We placed the extra bed for our son in the bathroom instead of using one of the daybeds in our room for privacy for all of us.