The teslamotorsclub.com forums are very active for many many opinions and questions about the car.

Personally, I'd want the AWD and long range battery but those add almost $20k to the car price.

Consider your home charging approach first. Tesla is apparently not including the NEMA 14-50 adapter anymore, so if you planned on installing that outlet you'll need to make sure you buy the adapter separately from them ($35 when it's in stock). They are trying to get people to either plug in to a standard 120V outlet or buy the Wall Connector.