Originally Posted by david4455
We ended up not going.....it was a BEAUTIFUL day in Seattle yesterday and we found ourselves just lazing around the backyard reading and when it came time to go we didn't want to budge.... besides I think I had these fantasies going... turning a simple gay potluck into a writhing man-pile of sexual orgy....
Sounds like more of a reason
to go, rather than not to go. And, had you mentioned this to your hosts, you probably would have been told not to bring anything, just "come as you are."