Oh dear, here’s a minefield! Fortunately we’ve been married for 38 years, have the same BA renewal date and pool our Avios in the HHA. As nearly all her shopping is on the partner card, I end up paying the Amex bill ... which means very month I creep into her overfilled Bank account and transfer it to the ‘pool’ savings account ... from which I transfer money to MY account to buy flights and hotels and stuff.

Now ... what was the question? And what is dating?