Shinkansen dining car with cook to order? Wow.
Nice dining is sort of coming back onto dedicated sightseeing + dining trains.
The Aru Ressha Sweets Train (more Sweet life than dessert Sweet) from JR Kyushu is 25,000 pp based on 2 passengers at 2 person table. The menu is designed by Yoshihiro Narisawa. I think meals are probably loaded cooked and plated since it only runs with two dining cars.
http://www.jrkyushu-aruressha.jp/en/train-status-info/
The overnight luxury trains like Seven Stars Kyushu and JR West Twilight Express Mizukaze have actual prep and kitchen space onboard.