For what it's worth, we're a family of 4 staying in Tokyo over Thanksgiving week. I had a hard time finding a room I thought would be big enough without breaking the bank, so we decided to forego status, FHR benefits, points etc. and booked an apartment type of hotel:

https://mimaruhotels.com/en-us/suitengumae/

Site unseen, it looks clean and the reviews on TripAdvisor look good (#1 in Chuo). We'll see...