Originally Posted by
jinkssick
]Maybe someone here will label me as acting 'entitled' but I can assure I maybe many things but not that.
Ding, ding, ding. You essentially are expecting to be able to tell him, "Give me your pen." People are free to answer you no. Given your reaction and that of your spouse, perhaps the guy learned to not like you over the course of the flight and didn't care to help you in any way.