Originally Posted by
Badenoch
Ah yes, the me me me age. I don't have a pen. Lend ME yours! I need to fill out MY form! You didn't lend ME your pen? I will make a snotty comment to MY wife who is sitting beside ME! Because you didn't lend ME your pen I am going to whine on the the internet about it.
What is even less common these days is self-reliance.
Here's a really basic way to know if somebody is well bred: ask them for something. If they say "absolutely, have my pen" or "not a problem, work in your set" or "of course you can have the last donut" you can tell they have been well bred.
If instead they whine about "me first" and "self reliance" you can be rather sure they attended a terrible school.