Originally Posted by
brewdog11
...Additionally, I honestly do not believe that we were being unreasonably loud...
Of course you don’t. Most people genuinely believe that their conversation is hushed enough that others are not disturbed. And why would they not think that? Most of us politely endure. Doesn’t mean we’re not disturbed.
Originally Posted by
brewdog11
...no one else in the cabin seemed to be bothered by us at all..
Operative word is “seemed.” Most people aren't rude, nasty and hostile like that pilot. Most of us try to get along by being tolerant of each other's generally-accepted-as-normal but nonetheless annoying behavior.