Since I started this thread I think it is just fair to share my itinerary with you.
Trip duration 14 days.
Start and end point Catania (due to flights as most of them go to Catania instead of Plarmo)
Day 1-3 Catania and Etna
Day 3-5 Palermo
Day 6-8 Planeta Estate Vineyard, south west area between Sciacca and Castelvetrano
Day 9--11 Agrigent (Agritourismo)
Day 11-14 Noto
So the trip is mix between cities, country side, history and culinary.
if you have some dinning recommendations or some must-dos for Catania or Palermo this you would appreciated. From my research and feeling it sound to me that Sicily is in general a safe and comfortable place when you apply the regular tourist advices.