Which bit of "no football shirts" confuses you?! Your fiance cannot wear a football shirt. This is for his own safety as the hospitality areas are not segregated.

This is the standard dress code in hospitality areas for Premier League football matches. Arsenal, where I got quite often on hospitality tickets, has identical rules.

In reality, in my experience ..... females can get away with wearing a home team football shirt. Men cannot. That's life (or at least at Arsenal). I doubt either sex would get in with an away shirt.

Jeans with rips are not acceptable.

Don't wear a dress, it will be very cold and probably windy! It does not count as Newcastle colours though! Only something clearly marked with the Newcastle name or crest would cause problems. If you wore a jumper with a zebra on it, for example, that would be OK :-)