Interestingly, none of the 3 star restaurants in New York rank among my favorite. My favorites are Keste, Cosme and Black Seed Bagel.
Having said that hoping for Eleven Madison Park in early December
Eleven Madison Park is VERY different from those places, as I'm sure you know. I'm not really sure they are comparable; they are not trying to compete with the fine dining experience offered at high-end NYC restaurants.
I had lunch today at London's newly two-starred Claude Bosi at Bibendum. I enjoyed it tremendously. The restaurant space is not large, and is both gorgeous and elegant. Service is refined, classic French--Champagne trolley to start and digestif trolley to finish--and put me at ease. I was not hungry enough at lunch for the tasting menu so ordered 3 courses a la carte. I had the duck jelly with Oscietra caviar and smoked sturgeon as the appetizer; rabbit with artichoke barigoule and langoustine as the main; and the chocolate souffle with basil ice cream as the dessert. I began with a glass of Billecart Salmon Rose and had a glass of 1996 Chateau Lafon Rochet, St Estephe (poured via Coravin) to go with the meal.
I enjoyed everything but the rabbit in particular was outstanding, and the pairing with langoustine, and langoustine bisque poured tableside, was inspired. I would absolutely return to the restaurant, and it seems a great place to enjoy a leisurely afternoon or evening with friends. Next time I'll get the tasting menu. It's 110 GBP for 7 courses. Wine pairing is 55 for 3 wines; 85 for 6 wines.
I'd say that Bibendum is right up there with London's best.