Chevel Blanc is the type of place where you have to wear a tuxedo. You may find other Maldives resorts to be more enjoyable since they'd be less stuffy. 7 nights is a long time at one of these places, so I would consider splitting up both Soneva resorts.
Bear in mind that a lot of these resorts are owned by the same people, the GM's know each other and many of the staff are friends/family with other staff at other resorts. I'm of the opinion that the service will be nearly equally superb (as it was when we went to the two COMO resorts) across many of the resorts.
Use that 50% coupon for the festive season next year and book four rooms. I'm sure a few of us might be willing to jump on that offer!
Sorry for the headache, and I understand the anticipation you had given their beautiful rooms, but this might be a nice miss considering the service you've already received.