How can one tell if one's names are transposed? And does the title matter (Mr. Mrs. Dr. etc)?

I transferred a total of 100k points over from Citi TY, 200k from one AX MR account, and now need to transfer another 100k over from a second MR account. Tix on hold only for 3 days. And after the AX transfer, it said this: "We are processing your points transfer to Asia MilesTM. For Asia Miles, transfers normally occur within 3-7 days, but please allow up to 90 days."

That freaked me out. It seems rather pointless to have a transfer partner if you have to do it without knowing if you'll be able to use the points when they hit. Or even to know when they will hit.