Well, I haven't dismissed your wife's condition as ridiculous, but I am dismissing your position that any violation of "THE RULES" entitles you to unlimited and unquestionable retaliatory measures of your choosing without any need to seek alternate resolutions. That's more than ridiculous, it's absolutely insane.
What is ridiculous is your misstatement of what I said. I have NEVER said anything remotely similar to "any violation of "THE RULES" entitles you to unlimited and unquestionable retaliatory measures of your choosing without any need to seek alternate resolutions." That's garbage, and you know it.