Hmm I never thoughtabout socialization. It seems regardless of what I go with, there isn't a whole lot of socializing (which is fine it is our honeymoon, but it would be nice to get drinks and meet people). Looks like Amanpuri it is!
Follow up question, my itinerary includes 2 days in Chiang Mai. Should we cut the two days and spend an extra day in Amanpuri and another in Japan (we will be heading there after Thailand)? We are already getting our elephant fix at the FS Golden Triangle, so is there anything Chiang Mai would add to the trip? Thanks.