AFAIK the only way to watch your own content is via RCA connectors:
https://www.flyertalk.com/forum/brit...rtainment.html
This is only a feature on certain classes - e.g. it isn't on WT.
Something like this (for Android) would do it:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/...GGDZKX5BZ19PV3
For Apple devices - you'll have to get the old style 30 pin connector AND a lightening adaptor.