Arrived in Shanghai today. Staying at Langham Xintiandi. Took a stroll at 11pm just to move my legs and within a single bock had 6 offers for a "special massage" or some variation. I assume the best action is to completely ignore as if they didn't exist. Is that the consensus? Would I have better luck telling them I'm married and not interested or would that make it worse?

Will get some photos of the hotel and post a review...

If anyone else is in Shanghai, I'll be here until oct 9...would be happy to meet up