OK, OK, so neither compare to QR, or CX, or QF, god forbid we talk EH
For me the 789 was fine on the day flight (wasn't even a full cabin), really pleasant trip, no problems. A full cabin, two or three people having gotten op ups, coming back from SJC on a night flight felt busy, aisles are narrow, feels trafficked. On arrival, with everyone trying to get to the loo to get changed, it was a chore. The debate is indeed borderline sophistry, but given the choice it would be the A380 for me too. I find I can lose myself in 1A or 1K, totally forget I am on such a large plane.