I set up myflyertalk & it has the forums I subscribe to in there.
BTW - I wish more people WOULD say yes to the Vcard. I find the private messaging new thing on FT to be a pain. Now if I get a message I have to log onto the FT site to retrieve it! Before if I wanted to send a message, I could just click on the person's email address (most folk have hotmail, AOL, yahoo rather than their work etc emails) write & send it, and check my email for response.
SanDiego1K & I were just im'ing each other about this. We both prefer the email vs having to log onto FT every time we want to get a message. Now, for some folk when I do send a message I'm going to ask them to give me their email address so I can add it to my address book (this would be people I've gotten to 'virtually' know on FT; not just the occasional person I might p.m. cuz of a thread topic), so no weird FT stalking
Edited to add: BTW, I think the reason so many vcards are turned off is that everyone's been having so much trouble accessing FT in general, much less had time to check out all the myflyertalk options, so most don't realize it exists. I didn't catch it right away, but when I realized what it was, I turned it on.