I know I'm a tough customer, but neither really speak to me. The SLH is too Boca Raton golf resorty. The Japanese boutique property is difficult to get a feel of, but from what I see on TripAdvisor, it just seems to lack "soul", for lack of a better description.

I've looked into Hoshinoya as well, which I understand is rated highly. It's all a bit too manicured and suburban looking. I realize that it's supposed to represent traditional Okinawan dwellings with the clay tiles roofs and stone walls, but it just feels like a tract housing development to me. I don't know, maybe I just can't find what I'm looking for in Japan.

I also worry that we'll get bored in late-November, as it's not exactly the season for beach activities or snorkeling. Has anyone on the forum actually been to Hoshinoya and if so, could you please describe what an average day was like on the island? What were the nighttime options like and how conveniently situated is the area to restaurants and local shops and culture? Also, what;s the ideal amount of time to spend on the island; 2-4 nights?