I can safely that I am a Disney with kids veteran having taken 10 or 12 trips with kids in the last 9 years. Your daughter may want a stroller after an hour or two. Or if you have a big REI/Kelty backpack for her, you might consider taking that.
By sedan, did you mean that you are taking a limo? We always use Tiffany Towncar. We've been really pleased with them.
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www.wdwig.com for endless amounts of Disney information including what characters are at what meals when. The character meals do keep kids entertained, allowing grownups to have a more leisurely meal.