Sorry for the confusion.
Yes the upgrade waitlist is what going to be canceled
My problem was I wanted to clear sector by sector as they become available but AM said I couldn't.
Until I asked is there anyway for me to confirm this one sector then they said I should do one way. They didn't tell me this before today. All of them kept saying it's a set.
So now I asked them to put me in one way upgrade.
That's all. And I still don't know how it will go.