Wingless - I think you definitely should go if you feel comfortable. The only problem that you might have is people will think you are a lesbian and some of the older generation of gay men don't like lesbians for which I don't have a clue why that is. Doesn't make sense but they might give you a cold shoulder. I'm sure that's not true everywhere in the country but here in SF it seems that's the case. In any case go, have fun and have one for me!

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