Catwood,
For the 3rd night of your hotel, you may want to try priceline ( see
www.biddingfortravel.com ) for people's actual experiences. I think you would be able to get the Park Hyatt (my favorite hotel - in the Financial District) for $60. Restaurant wise my favorites are Ma Tante Sumi, a fusion restaurant on 18th in the Castro, (see
www.matantesumi.com for menu and a free appetizer coupon) and Yank Sing for Chinese Dim Sum. I'm not really a club person so I'll let someone else answer that. Enjoy