If you're looking for a fun winery with great reds, try V. Sattui (www.vsattui.com). They have a huge tasting area and picnic grounds very conveniently located (can't buy their wines in the store). There are some great wineries around the Russian River - great drive or bike ride from Healdsburg to Gurneville. For dinner I would try Tra Vigne or John Ash & Company - both have great wine lists & unbeatable food. Gurneville is the primary gay resort area in the "wine country".