A male AA flight attendant who obeyed all the gay stereotypes, including the nasalized way of speaking, once gave me and my partner a bottle of wine each, but with no comments or winks. But, then, we had given him SOS coupons, also with no comments or winks (and with no thoughts of retribution either). Maybe I should start wearing a pin with a rainbow flag or some other emblem to see if things improve (or get worse).