Originally Posted by
T8191
This will however, sadly, be our first and last visit to Africa ... I'm too old to be bothered with this sort of aggravation ...
No-o-o! At least please wait until your trip before deciding.
jsnydcsa's philosophy is probably right. And Africa is different from the First World. Would you really deprive yourself of any chance of visiting a whole continent because of a poor SA experience?
Most of my Africa travel (the Maghreb, Kenya, SA, Gaborone) was on business and I had absolutely no wish to return privately. Until my first SA visit, that is, in the year democracy broke out. I no longer travel down on business but am grateful that I am still able to visit SA privately every year (in spite of BA's best efforts to deny me Avios travel).
Knowing you and your resilience from the BA forum, I hope you will be able to put this experience behind you. There really is so much to see and do in SA.
Oh, I'm ageing too, not so far behind you, and can still manage it.