I've stayed in a few high-end (ish) hotels when they've been available at reasonable rates and I've always disliked it. The cost of incidental services, like the breakfast and restaurant, are unnecessarily expensive, meaning I won't want to use them, meaning they in essence don't exist. And, maybe it's just my personality type, but I like to walk through a hotel lobby without three people asking if I need help and someone to call the elevator for me.
You also get terrible stares from staff when you request an Uber at a hotel which routinely has supercars casually parked in the drop-off zone.