Well, I got re-married and have two small kids now. My ex married her boyfriend she was cheating me with and is still in USA. The amount I'm asked to pay is about 50K which include not just alimony but the value of some non-existent jewelry (30K) which she lied to the court that I hid from her and the judge was happy believing everything she said including the value of the non-existent jewelry.

After going through all that I've been, my conscience doesn't allow me to pay her a single dime back. Already lost several thousands of dollars on a futile marriage. But then I know, there is perhaps no way out. Was just wondering the possibility of getting detained if I enter a different state far off from the state where the warrant was issued.