I've been to Bernard Loisseau which is one of the very top restaurants in Burgundy. I also stayed at the hotel which was fine and I got a Club 5C upgrade to a larger room that had a bottle of Champagne waiting for us.

Another choice that I mentioned in one or two of the other Burgundy threads here, but is not Relais & Chateaux is the Chateau de Gilly near Vougeot. http://www.grandesetapes.com/en/cast...gilly-burgundy