Originally Posted by
wharvey
I will usually say hello when we are all at the seat... and tell them to let me know if they need to get out of the row (I am always on the aisle). I will then usually put on my noise cancelling headphones and read or rest.
I am not one for small talk with strangers (my introverted nature) and put the headphones on to minimize risk of being talked to during the flight!

This exactly. Hate chatting with seatmates. There has only been one time that I've talked to my seat mate more than just a 'hello' and he is a member here, as it turns out (didn't know that until the end) and a FA for the airline we were flying on (not a non-rev, a personal trip). Greatest guy ever and we talked the entire flight. He still teases me about it - the girl who wouldn't stop talking to him. But the time - 5 1/2 hours - just flew by (pardon the pun) and we still keep in touch.