Originally Posted by
Tchiowa
I think you're over-reacting.
First, if a Thai girl comes to a hotel in Thailand in the middle of the night and asks to join an ex-pat man in his room and she is not on his reservation the hotel has to consider the reasons why she might be doing that. They may or may not have made assumptions about her.
In Bangkok, Occam's Razor would lead you to the conclusion that the front desk seemed to reach.
I would hazard to guess that your, entirely innocent, explanation is something of a freak situation.
Sorry to hear that it was such an uncomfortable moment.
Greg