Mrs. R and I will be heading over the labor day weekend to Falmouth which, I believe, is in the Upper Cape Cod region. So I have a bunch of questions. I know practically nothing about the region at this point. We will be flying in Thursday night and out on Monday.

1. What's the better airport to fly in Providence or Boston? Does it matter or should I base on price? Distance-wise, it looks almost the same.
2. I read in this forum it may be difficult to book a ferry to get a car over to Martha's Vinyard. Is it necessary to book in advance? Does it even make sense to take a car over for a one day trip.
3. Do you guys know of any must-see/most-do things?
4. What's a good Cape Cod website?
5. I am also lokking for a nice, higher end, romantic restaurant that's good for a anniversary.

Thanks!!