In WTP I was once given the CW amenity kit because the WTP was missing from my seat. What a luxury you"ll say: well all the others were given the WT one.

Having a gold card means you travel a lot (or either you like Honolulu), it doesn't make you the King of England: you are still a normal passenger flying in the class you paid for, pushing for things you wouldn't be entitled to won't work I'm afraid.